Pierre-Henry Soria – CTO Insights, Software Architecture & Product Leadership

Letting Go of 'Just in Case' Changed My Life

Intentional Living

Letting Go of ‘Just in Case’ Changed My Life

Choosing simplicity over accumulation brought unexpected freedom, clarity, and energy—revealing what truly matters in both work and daily life.

Not long ago, I was building a simple software tool for YouTube thumbnails. What began as a straightforward project quickly became cluttered with extra features—auto-enhance buttons, magic wands, and more. I kept asking myself, “What if I add this? And this?” Eventually, I stopped and wondered, “Pierre, do you really need all this?” That question changed everything.

This urge to add—features, possessions, commitments—isn’t just my problem. It’s a deeply human habit. We accumulate furniture we don’t need, accept free mugs because they’re free, or take every piece of furniture a friend offers, even if we dislike half of it. Why? “Just in case.” But every “just in case” adds another layer of complexity, another thing to maintain, another decision to make.

The Seduction of More

We’re conditioned to believe that more is better. We chase new challenges, gadgets, and opportunities, thinking each addition will improve our lives. But often, it’s the opposite. Every new thing—whether a luxury car, a bigger TV, or another mug—brings new responsibilities, problems, and worries.

Take luxury cars. Buying a Ferrari or Lamborghini might seem like the ultimate reward. But do you really need it? Beyond the initial thrill, you inherit maintenance headaches, risk of theft, and constant anxiety about damage. Sometimes, people buy expensive items just to reduce taxes, not because they want or need them. Is it worth the hassle for a few thousand euros saved? Usually, it’s not.

Even a home cinema setup can add unnecessary hassle. Sometimes it’s simpler—and more enjoyable—to just go to the movies, rather than dealing with installation, repairs, and technical glitches at home.

The Rule of Simplicity

So what’s the alternative? For me, it’s become a rule: do less, own less, and focus on what truly matters. Simplicity isn’t deprivation. It’s about making fewer choices, clearing away clutter, and focusing on essentials—the things that genuinely bring joy or serve a real purpose.

This isn’t always easy. Our culture celebrates accumulation. We’re told to want more: more money, more status, more stuff. But chasing “more” often leads to a maze of complexity that drains time, energy, and peace of mind.

Now, before adding anything new, I ask, “Do I really need this?” If the answer is no—or if I’m acting out of habit, temptation, or fear of missing out—I let it go. This question has saved me from countless unnecessary purchases and commitments.

The Trap of “Just in Case”

The “just in case” mindset is sneaky. It whispers that you should keep that extra mug, accept that free chair, or buy that backup gadget—just in case. But living for hypothetical scenarios means you’re always preparing for problems that may never come, and in the process, you clutter your present.

I used to accept every freebie and hand-me-down, thinking it was practical. But each new item was another thing to store, clean, or eventually get rid of. The supposed convenience quickly became a burden.

Why Are You Really Adding More?

Sometimes, we add things not out of need, but to challenge ourselves or prove something. There’s nothing wrong with pushing your limits or seeking new experiences. Everyone should challenge themselves from time to time. But it’s crucial to know your limits and recognize when enough is enough.

After a certain point, adding more doesn’t lead to growth—it leads to exhaustion. I’ve learned to say, “I’ve done enough. I’m proud of what I’ve created. Now it’s time to move on.” That’s a kind of freedom.

The Long-Term Cost of “Nice to Have”

In software, every unnecessary feature you add today becomes a problem to maintain tomorrow. Life is the same. Each “nice to have” item or commitment adds a little more weight to your shoulders. Over time, that weight adds up.

I’ve learned to distinguish between what’s truly essential and what’s just a fleeting desire. If something is only a “nice to have,” I let it go. The long-term cost—whether time, money, or mental energy—is rarely worth it.

Focus on What Matters to You

At the heart of this is a simple question: What do you really want for yourself? Not for victory, not for glory, not to impress others—but for you. Too often, we make choices based on others’ expectations or approval. Real satisfaction comes from aligning your life with your own values and desires.

For me, that means focusing on the basics—the things that truly make me happy—and letting go of the rest. It’s not about stagnation or giving up on ambition. It’s about recognizing when you’ve reached a good place and allowing yourself to enjoy it, rather than constantly chasing the next thing.

Add Spice, Not Clutter

Life isn’t meant to be bland. I believe in adding a little “spice”—taking on new challenges, learning new things, and seeking out experiences that fill you up. But there’s a difference between adding meaningful challenges and piling on unnecessary complexity.

When I take on something new, I ask: Does this excite me? Will it enrich my life? Or am I just adding it out of habit or obligation? If it’s the former, I go for it. If not, I pass.

The Power of Letting Go

Choosing to own less and do less has given me a sense of freedom I never expected. My mind is clearer, my days less stressful, and I have more energy for what truly matters. I invite you to reflect: What are you holding onto “just in case”? What could you let go of to make room for what really counts?

Simplicity isn’t about having nothing. It’s about having exactly what you need—and nothing more.


Pierre-Henry Soria

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