How to Shape Your Success by Choosing the Right People
Sometimes, life feels like a series of good moments strung together with challenges. Getting through tough times isn’t always easy. There are days when stress piles up, work feels overwhelming, and you’re not sure which way to turn. It’s as if you’re missing a friend who would usually help you see things clearly. In those moments, it’s easy to feel stuck or like you’re moving backward.
But here’s something I’ve learned: your environment has a huge impact on how well you do. If you’re in a place that doesn’t inspire you, or if you’re surrounded by people who don’t really care about success, it’s much harder to move forward. On the other hand, changing your surroundings—even in small ways—can make a big difference.
For example, try switching up the background music in your apartment. Play hotel lounge music, or something that makes you feel like you’re in a cozy café. Even the sound of a coffee machine can set a new mood. If you can, consider moving to a place that feels more pleasant. Right now, I’m living in a beautiful area, and honestly, it makes everything feel lighter and more in tune with who I am. When your environment feels right, everything else seems to fall into place.
The same goes for the people around you. If you spend time with people who inspire you, or if you read books and listen to podcasts by those who have achieved great things, you start to soak up their energy. You learn from their stories and begin to see what’s possible for yourself. Listening to talks, podcasts, or reading about people who have succeeded in your field can help you stay on track. It’s important to avoid toxic people who drag you down. Instead, fill your life with positive influences—whether that’s through audio, books, or even moving to a better place.
Even small rituals, like enjoying your favorite drink or creating new memories with friends, can help you build a life that feels good. When you focus on these details, everything else starts to move in the right direction. This approach is what I call deep and inner immersion. It’s about focusing on what truly matters and shaping your environment to support your goals.
No matter how much space you have, you can always find ways to make it work for you. The key is to create a space—physically and mentally—where the energy matches what you want to achieve. When you do this, you’ll notice things start to change for the better.
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
— Jim Rohn
“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”
— Oprah Winfrey
Key Takeaways
- Your environment and the people around you play a huge role in your success.
- Small changes, like music or moving to a nicer place, can boost your mood and motivation.
- Choose to spend time with people who inspire you, and avoid those who bring negativity.
- Create daily rituals that make you feel good and help you remember the good moments.
Ask Yourself:
- Is your current environment helping you grow, or holding you back?
- Who are the five people you spend the most time with? Are they lifting you up?
- What small changes can you make today to feel more inspired and motivated?
Pierre-Henry Soria
#Environment #Influences #Motivation #Personal-Growth #Productivity #Success