How to Redefine Your Priorities Without Waiting for “Later”
Have you ever stopped to think about how short life really is? We often act as if time is endless, putting things off for “later,” believing we’ll always have more chances. But the truth is, time is much more limited than we think. Unexpected events can happen at any moment, and there’s no guarantee that “later” will be better or even possible.
One of the biggest mistakes we make is telling ourselves, “I’ll do it in three weeks, or five weeks, when things calm down.” But who says things will be better then? If you have time to shower or brush your teeth, you have five, ten, or even twenty minutes you can set aside. We all have at least ten minutes a day we can use differently. Multiply that by seven, and you’ve got over an hour a week. Even twenty minutes a day adds up to over two hours a week. It might not sound like much, but over time, those minutes become something powerful.
The real magic is in what I call the compound effect. The more you work on something, the faster and better you get at it. But it’s not just about repeating the same thing every day without thinking. In programming, there’s a term: “code monkey”—someone who just types code without caring about its quality. If you spend twenty minutes a day doing something without trying to improve, you won’t get better. The key is to use those twenty minutes to always ask yourself, “How can I do this better tomorrow?” Every day, look for ways to improve, even just a little.
This mindset of constant iteration is what leads to real progress. At the end of each day, take a moment to rewind and reflect. What went well? What didn’t? Did you organize your day the way you wanted? Were you carrying around negative feelings? What can you do to clear your mind and make tomorrow better? It’s about cleaning up your daily routine, both in your actions and in your mind, so you can move forward with more energy and clarity.
If the path is beautiful, we don’t ask where it leads.
— Anatole France
When you’re self-employed, a freelancer, or an entrepreneur, this is even more important. Time is your most precious resource, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the “perfect” moment—when you have more time, more money, or when things are just right. But life doesn’t work that way. As time goes on, expenses can increase, unexpected things happen, and sometimes, the more you earn, the more you spend. There’s this idea of “F*** You Money”—the amount you need to finally do what you want. But often, people keep moving the goalpost, thinking, “Once I earn 10,000 euros a month, then I’ll do it.” But either they never reach that amount, or when they do, something else gets in the way.
The only way forward is to stay focused on your goal every single day. Ask yourself, “What do I need to do today to get closer to my goal?” At the end of the day, look back and see what worked and what didn’t. Did you waste time on negativity? Did you let someone else’s mood affect you? What can you do tomorrow to avoid that? The idea is to keep your mind clear and your actions aligned with what really matters to you.
And here’s something important: don’t do things just to impress others. Do what makes you happy, what feels right for you. Sometimes people buy flashy things or chase after status, but deep down, it doesn’t make them happy. It’s better to spend your time and energy on things that truly matter to you, not on what others expect.
The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second-best time is now.
— Ancient Chinese proverb
Every day, remind yourself of the three most important things you want to accomplish. Focus on those. If you find yourself scrolling aimlessly online, ask yourself why. What do you really want to achieve today? Use focused blocks of time—like a 90-minute sprint—to get things done. At the end of every couple of hours, check in with yourself: “Am I proud of what I just did? How could I have done it better?”
Sometimes, you’ll notice that people who say they don’t have time suddenly find it when something interests them. The same goes for you. If you’re curious and open, you’ll find more opportunities. If you’re always stressed or anxious, you’ll close yourself off and miss out. So, be careful, but also stay curious and open to new things.
The world is full of opportunities, but you have to go after them. They won’t come to you if you don’t make the first move. Smile, be open, and say yes to things that excite you. That’s how you’ll find the path that’s right for you.
Every effort, even the smallest, counts.
At the end of the day, life is short. Money comes and goes, but time only moves forward. Today will never come again. So, make the most of it. Do things that make you happy, that make you feel alive. If you wake up excited on Monday morning, just like you are on Friday night, you’re on the right track. Don’t waste your time trying to impress others—do what makes you feel good, what makes you want to jump out of bed and get started.
Key Takeaways
- Life is shorter than we think—don’t wait for the “perfect” moment.
- Use small blocks of time each day to work on what matters.
- Always look for ways to improve, even just a little.
- Reflect daily: What went well? What can you do better tomorrow?
- Focus on your own happiness, not on impressing others.
- Stay curious and open to new opportunities.
Action Steps
- Set aside at least 10–20 minutes a day for your goals.
- At the end of each day, reflect on what worked and what didn’t.
- List your top 3 priorities every morning.
- Ask yourself regularly: Am I doing this for me, or for someone else?
Reflection
- What’s one thing I can do today that my future self will thank me for?
- Am I living my days for myself, or for the approval of others?
- How can I make tomorrow just a little bit better than today?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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