How to Recharge in a Weekend Without Your Phone
There’s something deeply important that often gets overlooked: taking a retreat with yourself. I’m not talking about a vacation with friends or family, or a work trip disguised as leisure. I mean a true retreat, alone, away from all digital tools. No phone, no computer, nothing but you and maybe a book. This kind of break is essential for decompressing and gaining perspective on what’s happening in your life.
Whether you’re the founder of a company or an employee, these solo retreats are crucial. They give you the space to step back and really look at your life. Imagine checking into a hotel far from the noise—maybe by the sea, in the mountains, or at a quiet ski resort out of season. The key is to be somewhere with few distractions, where you can be unreachable. Tell your loved ones you’ll be off the grid, and give yourself permission to be truly alone.
During these moments, you get to reflect on your life. Being in nature or in a cozy chalet, the most important thing is to be present. You can think about what you’re doing, whether you actually enjoy it, and if you’re making the right choices. Sometimes, we realize we’ve been living according to a plan that doesn’t fit us. Maybe you live in the city but it’s not for you. Maybe you’re an engineer or a doctor, but it doesn’t feel right. These retreats help you see that.
For founders, it’s even recommended to do this twice a year for a few days. Bill Gates used to do something similar called the “Think Week.” It’s a time to step away and reflect, and it’s not just for CEOs. Anyone can benefit from this.
The retreat should be just for you. Even if you have a partner, try doing it alone—you’ll come back with more energy. Psychologists recommend this too, because you return refreshed and recharged. Being alone with yourself changes everything.
I suggest doing this for a few days. It’s something I’ve done many times, and it always helps me get perspective. You’ll be able to see what truly makes you happy, what gives you energy, and what you want more of in your life. These moments often lead to those “aha!” realizations about what you really want.
When you can identify what suits you, everything changes. You make better decisions, you’re happier, and you’re more present with your family and friends. You waste less time on things that don’t matter. Sometimes we feel trapped in our lives, unable to grow because we’re not in the right environment. A retreat helps you break out of that.
If you’ve never done this, try spending a weekend somewhere beautiful. I love going to high-end hotels for this—places like Hyatt, Capella, or Radisson. Yes, it’s an investment, but it’s an investment in yourself. A nice bath with a panoramic view can do wonders for your mind. It helps you step back and look at your life from a new angle, not just live in it.
Leave all digital tools behind. Not even a Kindle. Just bring a book or two, a notebook, and a pen. I always carry a notebook with me because writing by hand helps me think and reflect. It’s much better for creativity.
Sometimes you need to step outside, get some air, and remind yourself of who you are and who you want to be. — Anonymous
Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you. — Anne Lamott
Key Takeaways
- A solo retreat without digital distractions helps you decompress and gain perspective.
- Reflecting alone, even for a weekend, can lead to big realizations about your life and happiness.
- Investing in yourself is always worth it, whether it’s a nice hotel or simply time alone in nature.
- Journaling by hand boosts creativity and self-understanding.
Reflection
- When was the last time you spent real time alone, without any digital distractions?
- What would you discover about yourself if you stepped back from your daily routine?
- Are you living the life you truly want, or just the one you planned long ago?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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