How to Make Time for Yourself Without Feeling Guilty

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Finding time for yourself can feel impossible. Many of us struggle to prioritize what truly matters and what actually makes us feel good. Take my own experience: my work keeps me busy, even though I work remotely from home. My days are packed with tasks, and even when I’m in a co-working space, there’s always something that needs my attention.

I often start my day as early as 7:30 in the morning and keep going until 7 or 8 at night. By the end of the day, there’s no time left for myself. I miss out on moments of well-being, time with my partner, family chats, or even just a phone call with my mother. Personal growth takes a back seat too—reading a good magazine or book, watching an interesting show, or simply going for a walk. Sometimes, I play badminton with old colleagues at the university, which is great fun, but I rarely find the time to say yes. More often, I say “maybe later,” and before I know it, the whole week has slipped by in a blur of work.

It took me a while to realize that working more doesn’t mean working better. I wanted to share this realization: delegating and organizing your week can make all the difference. The trick is to schedule your personal time in advance, just like you would any important task. If you don’t, you’ll end up spending your whole day doing things that don’t necessarily make you happy.

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A well-planned week with a clear calendar or set commitments can change everything. For example, if you book a theater subscription with your partner for 6 PM, you’re committed. You can’t just say, “I’ll try to come home earlier.” If you’ve reserved a table at a restaurant or bought tickets for a show, you can’t be late. These external commitments force you to leave work on time and make space for life outside your job.

For me, signing up for paid badminton classes with colleagues means I can’t back out. The spot is reserved, and people are waiting for me. I can’t just say, “Not today, I’ll stay at work.” This kind of commitment helps create a more balanced life.

Sometimes, the best ideas come from improvisation. This article wasn’t planned, but maybe that’s what makes it real. If you want to go further, remember that small steps can improve your daily life.

“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”
— Stephen R. Covey

“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.”
— Anne Lamott

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Key Takeaways

• Schedule personal time in your calendar, just like work tasks.
• Make external commitments (like classes or reservations) to help you stick to your plans.
• Balance isn’t about doing less work, but about making time for what matters.
• Small, regular moments for yourself can change your whole week.

Reflection

• When was the last time you truly made time for yourself?
• What’s one thing you can schedule this week that’s just for you?
• How can you turn your “maybe later” into a real commitment?