How to Make Every Day Count Without Waiting for Tomorrow
Most of us live as if life will never end. We plan, we work, we put things off, always thinking there will be more time. But the truth is, life does have an end. When you really understand this, you start making wiser decisions. You begin to enjoy the small, simple moments—often the ones that bring the most happiness and the least worry.
I’m writing this as I sit by the bay. It’s quiet here, just a handful of people, all respecting each other’s space. I love this calm. But sometimes, you find yourself in noisy, stressful environments, surrounded by people who don’t care about others. That’s frustrating. Life is too short to put up with that. If you’re not comfortable where you are, change your environment. Move, travel, find a place that suits you. There are so many places in the world. Don’t let limiting beliefs hold you back—those thoughts that say, “I can’t do it.” You can.
There’s a café nearby I like to visit. Sometimes, I just sit there, watch life go by, and reflect. It’s important to take a step back and look at what’s happened, to process events, even the tough ones. When something bad happens, you can react with anger or frustration, but that rarely helps. Instead, ask yourself: “How could I have avoided this?” Take responsibility, even if it feels like it wasn’t your fault. For example, I recently had a server hacked. The code was written by someone else, but I was responsible for the server. If I’d checked the code more carefully, maybe I could have prevented it. I spent three sleepless nights fixing the problem and patching the security hole. It was tough, but it taught me a lot.
When you realize life is short, you start questioning how you spend your time. Many people spend years at jobs they don’t like, just for a steady paycheck. I did it too, especially when I was younger and eager to learn. My first job was in Dublin, Ireland. I loved the team, and sometimes I stayed at the office until 8 or 9 pm just to chat with colleagues. But looking back, I wonder: was it worth giving so much energy to a company that wasn’t mine? I didn’t have shares, I didn’t get raises, and no matter how hard I worked, I was still just an employee.
Ask yourself what you really want from life. Many of us dream of building our own projects, creating something that belongs to us. Working for someone else is fine, but sacrificing your life for a fixed salary and no real ownership? That’s not always worth it. I once worked over 70 hours a week for a company. Sure, I was paid by the hour, but you have to weigh the cost.
The message I want to share is this: enjoy your moments. Don’t deprive yourself. Money comes and goes, but time only moves forward. It’s like a train that never stops. That’s why it’s so important to appreciate where you are and the time you have, because we never know how long we’ll be here.
This morning, I woke up at 6:20 am and wrote these thoughts down. We often don’t make the best choices because we think we have unlimited time. But if tomorrow was your last day, what would you regret? That’s what you need to figure out. For me, I know I’d regret not visiting Antarctica. It’s the experiences that matter most, not the things we own. You won’t regret not buying the latest iPhone, unless it would have truly changed your life. But usually, it’s the memories and adventures that count.
If you want to create memories that last a lifetime, start now. Don’t wait for retirement—you never know what might happen. Take “mini-retirements” along the way. Tim Ferriss popularized this idea, and I once took a six-month sabbatical from work. I traveled, volunteered, and spent three months in Canada, exploring British Columbia and Alberta. Those memories are priceless.
Think about what you can do now to create memories you’ll cherish. Even today, I’m working by the bay with my laptop, enjoying a beautiful view. It makes all the difference.
Every two hours, I pause and ask myself: “Am I happy with how I spent this time? Did I do something just to please someone else?” Don’t be a people-pleaser—someone who does things just to make others happy, even if it doesn’t make you happy. For example, don’t buy a fancy car just to impress your neighbors if you don’t even like cars. Spend your time and money on what truly matters to you.
Remember, your life is precious and your time is limited. You have your own train to catch—the train of your life. Others may have different interests, and that’s okay. What matters is knowing your own interests and making decisions that are right for you.
“The trouble is, you think you have time.”
— Jack Kornfield
“You can always make more money. You can’t make more time.”
— Anonymous
Key Takeaways
- Life is short. Don’t waste it in places or with people that drain you.
- Take responsibility for your choices, even when things go wrong.
- Prioritize experiences and memories over possessions.
- Don’t wait for retirement—create moments you’ll remember now.
- Pause regularly and ask yourself if you’re living for yourself or just pleasing others.
Action Steps
- Identify what truly makes you happy and do more of it.
- Change your environment if it doesn’t suit you.
- Take small breaks to reflect on your day and your choices.
- Plan your own “mini-retirements” or adventures, even if they’re short.
- Stop living for others’ approval—live for yourself.
Reflection
- If tomorrow was your last day, what would you regret not doing?
- Are you spending your time on what matters most to you?
- What small change can you make today to move closer to your ideal life?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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