How to Grow Stronger by Letting Go of Others’ Opinions

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There are days when emotions seem to come out of nowhere. You might feel a bit down, without really knowing why. It’s strange, because life deserves to be lived fully, to be used to its potential. There are so many things you can do, so many ways you can make a difference—if you really want to.

But for that, you need to take action. You have to say to yourself, “Today, I’ll do this. Tomorrow, I’ll try that.” Maybe next week, you’ll even start a plan to launch a project, like an open-source app for Japanese hot dog deliveries. Why not? Or maybe you’ll create an online course on how to open a Japanese hot dog restaurant. When I was in Vancouver, I saw these food trucks everywhere. If you’ve been there, you know what I mean—little trucks on the street, each with their own twist.

Or maybe you’ll sell sparkling water from a famous spring. People might buy it not because they’re thirsty, but because it comes from that special place. The same goes for popcorn. Imagine a food truck selling cheese popcorn, or any flavor you can think of. You could even start a website, and if it works out, a few years later, you could coach others, consult on popcorn food trucks, organize seminars, write books, or record videos about starting a popcorn business. The possibilities are endless.

But here’s the thing: you have to separate your business life from your personal life. If something fails, it’s not the end of the world. It’s not you. You learn from your mistakes and move forward. We’re all sensitive in our own way, and sometimes that sensitivity can hold us back. It can make us waste time, overthink, or feel weaker, just because we feel things more deeply than others.

Sometimes, we’re sensitive for our loved ones, or even for comments from strangers. That’s normal when it comes from people close to us. But when it’s from someone outside our circle—a random person on the street or a salesperson—it’s important to build a kind of armor. Otherwise, you risk letting one negative interaction ruin your whole day, week, or even longer.

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Ask yourself: why let someone who barely knows you bring you down? Their opinion doesn’t define you. It’s important to draw a line between what matters and what doesn’t. Life is short, and it’s meant to be enjoyed. You should focus on what you want to achieve, on making your days count.

Think of yourself as a knight on a horse, ready to conquer new territory. In this case, your territory is your daily life, your passions, your projects. How can you live better, and let your sensitivity make you stronger, not weaker? Being sensitive is actually a gift. You feel more, you notice more, and you experience things that others might miss. But sometimes, it can paralyze you, even in small situations.

Let me share a story. Recently, my girlfriend handed in her CV at a pharmacy. The person took it, glanced at it, and then, thinking she wasn’t looking, threw it in the trash. She saw it, and of course, it hurt. He could have just said they weren’t hiring. It’s common to hand out CVs in restaurants or cafes, but in pharmacies, it’s a bit different. Still, it had nothing to do with her personally. He barely read it. But for her, it made the job search feel even harder. It’s easy to let one bad experience make you afraid to try again. But you have to remind yourself: just because one person rejected you doesn’t mean everyone will.

It’s so human to feel this way. When things go wrong, we tend to expect the worst next time. But that’s not how it has to be. You have to keep going, keep trying, and remember that your life is yours. Don’t let others weigh you down.

“Being sensitive is not a weakness. It’s the ability to feel deeply, to notice what others miss, and to turn pain into strength.”
— Anonymous

“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.”
— Unknown

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Key Takeaways

• Don’t let strangers’ opinions define your self-worth.
• Use your sensitivity as a strength, not a weakness.
• Separate your personal value from your business or project outcomes.
• Life is short—focus on what makes you happy and fulfilled.

Reflection

• When was the last time you let someone’s comment ruin your day?
• How can you use your sensitivity to help you, instead of holding you back?
• What’s one small step you can take today to become a stronger version of yourself?