How to Get More Done by Using the Three Daily Stones
When it comes to organizing our days, most advice out there feels generic or just doesn’t stick. But there’s a method I hold close to my heart—a way of structuring your day around what I call the “three stones.” These aren’t just any tasks. They’re the three fundamental pillars that hold up your entire day.
Let’s break it down.
Why the Morning Matters Most
The morning is the clean slate of your day. Your mind is fresh, your energy is at its peak, and you haven’t yet been weighed down by emails, bad news, or the little conflicts that inevitably pop up as the hours pass. As the day moves on—1pm, 2pm, 4pm, 6pm—mental clutter builds up. A single negative email, a tense conversation, or even just a rude encounter can add weight to your mind. This isn’t just procrastination; it’s rumination. You start to replay things in your head, and suddenly, you’re no longer in the present moment. Your energy and focus slip away.
That’s why it’s so important to tackle your three stones first thing in the morning. Before breakfast, before you even check your phone, you should already be working on your first stone. This guarantees you start your day with a win, and you’ll feel proud and grateful to yourself for it.
The Three Stones: What Are They?
Each evening, before bed, write down your three stones for the next day. These are the three most important things you want to accomplish. Put them on paper—yes, real paper, not your phone. This helps you avoid distractions and keeps your focus sharp.
- Stone 1: The most important task. Aim to spend 45 minutes to 1 hour on this, right after you wake up, before breakfast.
- Stones 2 & 3: Two other important tasks. Together, these should take about an hour.
That’s it—just two hours for your three stones. It might not sound like much, but over time, these focused hours add up, just like compound interest in finance. Day after day, you build something meaningful.
Planning and Execution
The night before, ask yourself: What are the three things I absolutely want to accomplish tomorrow? Write them down. In the morning, as soon as you wake up, look at your list. Take your shower, drink a glass of water, and get started on your first stone.
If you need breakfast, keep it light. A heavy meal can slow your mind and make it harder to focus. I’ve fallen into that trap myself—thinking a big breakfast wouldn’t distract me, but it always does. Keep your break short—no more than 15 minutes—so you can get back into deep work without losing momentum.
After your first stone, take that quick break if you need it, then move on to stones two and three. These should also be done early in the morning, before the world starts pulling you in a hundred directions.
The Power of Limiting Time
Here’s a trick: set a timer for each stone. This is called “time boxing.” Give yourself a strict deadline—one hour for the first stone, thirty minutes each for the next two. When the timer goes off, you stop. This keeps you from getting lost in the details or letting perfectionism slow you down.
This approach is backed by Parkinson’s Law: Work expands to fill the time available for its completion. If you give yourself two hours for a task, you’ll use all two hours. But if you only have one hour, you’ll find a way to get it done in one.
Why This Works
When you plan your three stones the night before, you’re forced to think about what really matters. What will have the most impact? What will bring the most value? Focus on the 20% of tasks that will give you 80% of the results. Cut out the unnecessary, the trivial, the things that don’t really move you forward.
Think of your day as a mini-life. Each day is a small life that ends when you go to bed. If you fill your days with meaningful stones, you’ll build a life full of meaning, one day at a time.
“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”
— Epicurus
Make It Yours
This method works whether you’re an employee, a freelancer, or working on a passion project. Those two hours in the morning are yours. Use them to write a book, build an audience, or work on something that matters deeply to you.
Every evening, write down your three stones for the next morning. When you wake up, look at your list, and get to work. Use a timer to keep yourself on track. Remember, your time is not infinite. By limiting your hours, you force yourself to focus only on what’s essential.
Over time, you’ll see the results. You’ll feel more satisfied, less stressed, and more in control of your days—and your life.
Key Takeaways
- Start your day with your three most important tasks—the “three stones.”
- Plan your stones the night before, and write them down on paper.
- Do your first stone before breakfast, and keep breaks short.
- Use a timer for each stone to stay focused and avoid perfectionism.
- Focus on what brings the most value, and cut out the unnecessary.
- Treat each day as a mini-life—fill it with meaning, and you’ll build a meaningful life.
Reflection
- What are the three stones that would make tomorrow a great day for you?
- Are you spending your best hours on what matters most?
- How can you cut out the noise and focus on your true priorities?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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