How to Find True Freedom Without Chasing Perfection
Imagine feeling completely free, as if you could run anywhere across a vast meadow. There are no fences, no rivers blocking your path. You are simply free in the grass, free in the open field, able to run without limits. The only thing you see is the horizon. In that moment, there are no boundaries. This sense of freedom brings happiness, because there are no limits—at least, none except the ones we create for ourselves.
When you want to create or achieve something, there’s always a limit. But the only real limit is the one you set in your own mind. If you remove all boundaries, you might feel lost or disoriented. That’s why we need some structure, and it’s also why change is so difficult. We tend to resist change, because doing things the way we’ve always done them feels safe. It’s like a stabilizer, telling us, “I’ve always done it this way, why change now?” Otherwise, we’d feel like we’re losing our minds.
But when it comes to your own creations and achievements, you have to believe in yourself. If you set limits by telling yourself, “I can’t do this because no one in my family has ever done it,” or “I was always told I wasn’t smart enough for math,” you’re just repeating old stories. For example, I was never good at math. Yet, I’m now finishing a master’s degree in data science at James Cook University, and I’ve received excellent grades—mostly high distinctions. No one ever told me I was good at math or data analysis. Sure, I’ve been a computer engineer for years, which helps, but data science is a whole different world. Honestly, I thought I’d know most of the database topics, but when it came to math, I knew nothing. There was so much to learn, especially in mathematics, and then there were tools like SAS for transforming raw data into visuals. I never really liked that part. But if you believe in yourself and know what you want—like earning that master’s degree—then possibilities open up. If you want it badly enough, you can do it. This is a personal belief, but it works: if you want it, you can achieve it.
We all love freedom. If there are no limits, if nothing holds us back, it’s like that famous story of the elephant. In India, baby elephants are tied to a small stake with a rope. As babies, they don’t have the strength to break free. They try to escape, but the stake holds them back. As they grow into adults, they become strong enough to easily pull the stake out of the ground. But they don’t even try, because they’ve learned since childhood that it’s impossible. This belief becomes part of their reality.
Our own limits often come from our upbringing. We’re told certain things, or we grow up in a specific environment or culture. We see everyone around us thinking the same way, so we assume that’s how everyone in the world thinks. But that’s not true at all. To change, you need to challenge yourself, travel, and realize that things are possible. Push yourself to do things you once thought were impossible. Tell yourself there’s no plan B, because plan B is just a distraction.
Every day is a new chance to start fresh. Look in the mirror and tell yourself, “I can do it. Today, I will achieve this. Anything is possible if I want it.” You can even listen to music to get yourself in the right mood. Jump around, shout if you need to—just like Tony Robbins suggests in his documentary “I Am Not Your Guru.” Many speakers use these tricks to get into the right mindset. Sometimes you wake up and your mind isn’t in the right place, so you need to get yourself ready for the day you want to live.
The only limits in our lives are those we accept in our minds.
— Anonymous
If you believe you can, you’re halfway there.
— Theodore Roosevelt
Key Takeaways
- The only real limits are the ones you set for yourself.
- Your beliefs are shaped by your upbringing, but you can change them.
- Challenge yourself to do what you once thought was impossible.
- Every day is a new opportunity to start fresh and believe in yourself.
Reflection
- What limits have you accepted that aren’t really true?
- What would you do if you believed anything was possible?
- How can you challenge yourself today to break free from old patterns?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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