How to Be Happier by Owning Less Stuff
Simplicity is a word we often hear, but rarely do we stop to think about what it truly means for our lives. We have a strange tendency to complicate things, even when we start with something simple. Maybe it’s because we love a good challenge, or we want to push ourselves further. Even when building a straightforward business or project, we find ourselves adding more features, more options, more layers. It’s like hopping from one idea to the next, always thinking, “What if I add this? Or that?”
Take, for example, a small software project I was working on. The goal was to create a simple tool for making YouTube thumbnails. But soon, I started adding new features, like an auto-enhance button—just like the magic wand you find on Apple devices that instantly makes your photos look better. I kept piling on more and more, until I had to stop and ask myself, “Do I really need all this?”
We do the same thing at home. We collect furniture, gadgets, and freebies without ever asking if we actually need them. Someone moves out and offers you all their furniture—you take it, even if you don’t like half of it, just in case. Or you grab a free mug at a store, thinking, “Well, what if one breaks?” But all these “just in case” items end up taking space, adding clutter, and creating new problems to manage.
This habit of adding more is everywhere. It’s almost human nature to play with fire, to test our limits. Sometimes we take risks just to see what happens, like staying up late with loud music, waiting to see if anyone complains. Or we gamble, thinking we’re just one step away from winning big. We like to see how far we can go before things fall apart.
But here’s the hard truth: we need to learn to say no. No, I don’t need that extra feature. No, I don’t need another mug. No, I don’t need to complicate my life for the sake of it. The rule of simplicity is about making fewer choices, owning fewer things, and focusing on what truly matters.
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
— Leonardo da Vinci
Think about it: we always want more. More money, more recognition, more stuff. We earn more, so we buy luxury cars or try to lower our taxes by making complicated investments. But do we really need these things? Often, the answer is no. And all this extra stuff just adds more maintenance, more risk, more headaches.
Ask yourself: what do you really want in life? Sometimes we chase challenges just to prove something to ourselves. That’s fine—everyone needs a challenge now and then. But it’s just as important to know your limits, to recognize when you’ve done enough, and to be content with what you have. You don’t have to keep climbing just because you can.
It’s tempting to buy the latest gadgets, the biggest TV, or the flashiest car. But every new thing you bring into your life adds complexity. That giant TV might break down. That luxury car might attract thieves. Just because you can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it. Sometimes, the best choice is to do nothing, to keep things simple.
The things you own end up owning you.
— Chuck Palahniuk
Instead of chasing after more, try focusing on what truly brings you joy and satisfaction. I like to call this adding a little spice to life—finding new challenges that excite you, interviewing interesting people, or taking on projects that really matter to you. These are the things that help you grow and move to the next level, not the extra clutter.
When you finish something you’re proud of, see it as a step on a staircase, not a reason to add more weight to your life. If you’re building software, for example, every new feature adds technical debt—extra work and problems down the line. Sometimes we do things just for fun, but we don’t realize the long-term cost.
So, take a step back and focus on the essentials. Ask yourself what you really want—not for glory, not for others, but for yourself. Victory and fame are different; fame is for others, but victory is for you. What do you want for you?
He who buys what he does not need, steals from himself.
— Swedish Proverb
Key Takeaways
- Simplicity leads to a happier, less stressful life.
- Adding more things or features often creates more problems than it solves.
- Ask yourself if you truly need something before bringing it into your life.
- Focus on what matters most to you, not what impresses others.
- Recognize when you’ve done enough and allow yourself to be content.
Reflection
- What are you holding onto “just in case” that you could let go of today?
- Are you adding complexity to your life for the right reasons?
- What truly brings you satisfaction and joy?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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