How I Get More Done Without Losing My Weekends to Time Slips
Have you ever started a day off—maybe a public holiday or a long weekend—thinking you’d finally get so much done, only to realize by the end that the hours just vanished? I know that feeling all too well. Living in Australia, long weekends are rare, so when one comes around, I always think, “Great, I’ll finally tackle all those things I’ve been putting off.” But somehow, the days just disappear.
Let me walk you through what usually happens. Friday is a holiday, so I wake up thinking I have all the time in the world. Saturday comes, and I’m a bit tired from staying up late the night before. I get up late, have a slow breakfast, notice some dust on the floor, start cleaning, then decide to do some laundry because it’s been a while. Before I know it, I’m scrolling online, and suddenly it’s already 1 p.m. I had planned to use the whole day for important things, but my time got sucked away by little chores and distractions.
This is what I call “junk food” for your day. If you don’t plan or structure your time, how can you expect to get anything meaningful done? If you start your day with tasks that require zero brainpower—like laundry or cleaning—you’re wasting your best energy. Save those for the evening, when your mind is tired. In the morning, use your fresh energy and focus for the things that matter most to you: projects that could change your career, build your reputation, or make you unforgettable.
Instead of letting your day evaporate, plan it. The night before, write down the most important things you want to accomplish. And don’t just write them—make sure you read your list in the morning. It’s easy to forget about it and get distracted by other things, especially if you’re not used to checking your list. But your life is the most important thing. If people—family, friends, even your kids—ask for your time, it’s okay to say no for a while. Stay in your room and do what matters to you first. There will always be unexpected things popping up, but if you don’t protect your time, you’ll end up with mental overload and nothing to show for it.
One crucial tip: never check your phone, notifications, or emails first thing in the morning. Even good news can add mental clutter and distract you from your priorities. Your mind is clear and fresh in the morning—use it for what’s most important.
Brian Tracy talks about this in his famous advice to “eat that frog.” If you had to eat a slimy, disgusting frog, the longer you wait, the more you dread it. But if you just do it first thing, it’s done, and you don’t have to think about it anymore. The same goes for your most important or stressful tasks—do them first, and the rest of your day will feel lighter.
If you have to eat a frog, don’t spend a lot of time looking at it. Just do it, and move on.
— Brian Tracy
Making decisions and taking action is what moves you forward. Sometimes we’re afraid to choose, so days and months pass, and we’re still stuck in the same place. Don’t let that happen. Organize your days, do the most important things first, and you’ll become someone who’s fulfilled, successful, and confident. When you see what you’re capable of, your self-belief grows.
I wish you all the best. Remember, the best time to take action is today—not tomorrow. Don’t put off what you want to do.
Key Takeaways
- Plan your day the night before—write down your top priorities.
- Use your morning energy for important, meaningful work, not chores.
- Avoid your phone and notifications first thing in the morning.
- Take action on the hardest or most important task right away (“eat that frog”).
- Protect your time from distractions—even from people you love.
- Taking action builds confidence and moves you forward.
Reflection
- How often do you let small tasks eat up your best hours?
- What’s the “frog” you’ve been avoiding?
- What could you achieve if you protected your mornings for your most important work?
Pierre-Henry Soria
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